Would you retaliate? Or what? HELP!!!!!?

well...as long as your husband loves you ....you should not care what his family thinks about you ...for you never gonna keep them happy regardless of what you do...they will always find some negative in you...so you should just prove to them that you do not care what they say...and you should go to family reunions ..once in a while...but not to all of them....this way ..you show them that you don't care what they think ...and also by showing once in a while..it showes to them that you do love your husband..and that you are not affraid of any ideas or things they might say to your husband about you...when you do not go to those reunions....I would just have a blast ..enjoying the heck out of it...and hugging and kissing husby in front of everybody at family reunions ..just to get a good kick out of his family...lol